A Celebration of Life
I work with families to learn about their loved one in order to create a personal and dignified tribute to them. I am there to help and support families through this difficult time.
For funeral ceremonies conducted in crematoriums and/or cemeteries, I work closely with your chosen funeral director.
I can also conduct memorial ceremonies and/or interments of ashes, whether arranged via a funeral director or direct.
Advance Funeral Wishes
You might want to make plans for your own funeral when the time comes, to reduce some of the emotional distress from your loved ones. I can help by discussing and documenting your wishes in advance, regardless of your health or what stage of life you are at.
As well as guidance around planning your own funeral, Age UK also offers a free guide which provides practical and emotional guidance that can help you when preparing to make decisions about the end of your life. It includes:
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how to start conversations with family and friends
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making a will
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writing an advance statement of wishes
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definitions of key terms that come up often
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useful organisations that you can contact for further support and guidance in thinking through your options
Fee
£250* for 2026/27
*No charge for funerals for under 18s or for advance funeral wishes. Funerals for patients, staff and volunteers of Strathcarron Hospice - 20% of my fee is donated to the Hospice.
My fee is inclusive of travel up to 50 miles from home (25 miles each way). Travel beyond this is charged at 50p per mile.
Any additional fees and expenses, for example where there’s a requirement for extended periods away from home and/or which may necessitate public transport and/or overnight accommodation, can be discussed.
Note that Humanist Ceremonies Scotland is not a membership organisation and there is therefore no additional joining fee.
Useful links
Humanist Ceremonies Scotland - about our community
Scottish Government - guidance around arranging a funeral
Age UK - guidance that can help you when preparing to make decisions about the end of your life
Good Life, Good Death, Good Grief - help through the difficult times that come with death, dying and bereavement
Dignity In Dying - campaigning for the right to a good death